The Superwomen

Found in Channel : Random Talks — Damilare @ 5:51 am

Behind every successful man is a woman, the bible also says “He who finds a woman of virtue, finds a good wife”, hence every man’s dream come true is hooking up with the right woman. A woman of virtue raises vibrant and healthy kids. She also drives the husband to success with support, love and care (vice versa). I grinned with envy watching Saheed, head of an admnistration, Lagos State University take home his wonderful bride, Tokunbo, home on the 23rd of August, 2008. This did not only prick my conscience with the “are you ready?” question, it also raised a fundamental question. What sort of woman makes a almost perfect one?

Strolling down memory lane, I recollect a couple of relationships I have had, and as a result, could categorize these ladies into some sorts. The strong, beautiful, intelligent, caring, homey, sexy to name a few. Beyond the sweet side, some ladies can also be selfish, parasitic and emotionally ruthless! Another interesting feature of these ladies were their perseverance nature, sticking against all odds. This should be a logical choice, as life is full of ups and downs, and a woman’s ability to pull through makes her, not only a strong woman, but a virtuous one.

However, virtuous-seeming ladies falls into two categories. Those with good intentions, who is driven my passion and love for you and your desires (vice versa), and those who is just waiting to for you to “blow” and take their rightful share! The latter don’t last for long, and it would be really disgusting when they eventually starts getting excited at your “ups” and shying away from your “downs”.

An interesting set of emerging woman in modern Africa are the set of educated, young and independent women who believes their husbands should be partners and not hosts. Women who are strong and submissive (to faithful and loyal partners), those are women who I consider the almost perfect ones. Women who are not just mothers, and wives, but partners that can hold intelligent topics, and be hot in bed at the same time. Women who are independent enough to think “I for me, He for him, and Us for Us”.

These are the superwomen Alicia Keys sang about, kudos to you if you are reading this!

One Response to “The Superwomen”

  1. adebiyi adewale Says:

    nice one dude

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